Right Or Happy?
I have heard this concept explained many times by various teachers of personal development and Law of Attraction. I believe the concept originated from A Course in Miracles.
It is based on the concept that our ego is what wants or needs to be “right”. When we are in this state of being, pushing our opinion on others or telling people how we were wronged, clearly we are not experiencing happiness at the same time.
Hence the question Would you rather be right or happy?
There are many people that will choose right every time. They will be red in the face and pushing out their opinion to whoever they hope to convert to their thinking. They are like a dog with a bone.
If you are a believer of Law of Attraction then happiness is what you will choose.
The Event that prompted this Post
My friend Donna Merrill, from DonnaMerrillTribe wrote a review of an opportunity she had once been a part of and since left. Like all business opportunities there are people that love this one and some who do not. That is life we are all different and should respect each others right to choose.
The post was meant to have a video of a hangout Donna did with a guy named Aki Wood. The recording did not work so Aki re-recorded a video which is included.
I am a part of the business Donna was reviewing. Donna is not and that is okay we are good friends and respect each others choices and differences.
Not everyone thinks or behaves like I do though. Donna had a person comment in a pretty negative way about the business. That in itself is okay as I said we are all entitled to our opinion. What happened here though was this person kept commenting and became quite rude.
I wondered what his agenda or motive was and why was he wasting his energy trying to be “right”.
Right or Happy?
Can you see what I mean here by this example?
Law of Attraction means we attract into our lives what we give our attention to. So if we give our attention to what we do not want we will attract exactly that which we do not want.
We must guard our thoughts, words and actions with absolute diligence. Yet most people will choose to be right rather than happy.
Telling your story or justifying whatever your circumstances are will not serve you to change them. Accept where you are and move towards where you want to be.
Give your thoughts to the life you are wanting to create.
Don’t give energy to what you DO NOT want!
This is a big one. You see it all over social media. People with their causes and passions. Stating what they do not want. Remember Law of Attraction brings us that which we give our energy to…be careful.
Politics is a big one where people are bashing the politicians they do not like. Far better to focus on the one you do like. See the difference?
Would you rather be right or happy?
Which do you choose? Being right, winning an argument, trying to convert someone to your way of thinking to me is a waste of time. I am not saying you do not state your opinion. Of course you should do that. Just do it without an agenda to change someone or make someone else wrong.
I would love to hear your opinion on would you rather be right or happy. Please leave me a comment below. Also if you found this of value please share it.
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