Being – who you want to be.
In my last post Be Do Have and Create More Success, I discussed the concept of Be Do Have. If you did not read it I suggest you do that before you continue with this one.
The concept, which is based on the Law of Attraction, says we must Be who we want to become first and then we must Do the necessary actions to Have what we want to have. But do read my last post if you have not – here.
Because most people approach life the other way I wanted to follow up with some ideas I have seen taught over the years.
How can I BE when I do not Have?
This is a question that many people ask when they are first learning this concept. Let’s have a look at some examples with Money.
Money is a big one for many people at the best of times and especially in these more challenging economic times.
Unless you grew up with parents who were wealthy and understood the Law of Attraction you probably heard things like “money doesn’t grow on trees, rich people are not happy, you don’t need money to be happy, money is the root of all evil” ……..and so on.
Clearly these sayings do not support us if they are buried in our subconscious.
Therefore I wanted to share some ideas on how to step into the vibration of of Being a wealthy person before you actually Have the amount of money you desire.
Places that Make you Feel Rich and Successful.
About 20 years ago Robert Kiyosaki and several others taught a live event called Powerful Presentations. It was about learning to present on stage powerfully and also to act and be the person you aspire to be.
I had a one on one session with a man named John who was a support teacher for the course. At the time we were in recession in Australia and our business was struggling like many other businesses at the time. I was finding it difficult in keeping my head and thoughts in a place that would support us.
John suggested I spend some time each week visiting places that make me feel successful. For me we worked out plush hotel foyers did it. So I was to go and sit and have a coffee and just be with the vibration. That worked well for me.
It might not be hotels that do it for you so identify the place or places that do make you feel fabulous and try it.
Places that make your fee l not so good
On the flip side avoid places that drain your energy. For me I have some shopping malls that I hate being in so I do not go there.
Hang out where rich people do instead. You do not have to buy anything. Just walk through and feel rich.
Other ideas from seminars
These are some other exercises that I have been exposed to over my time in managing and participating in live events.
Stretch Your Comfort Zone
Go and try on some clothes that you consider too expensive. If you already buy designer clothes and have no problem with buying the best then skip this one.
For the rest of you it might be Channel, Armani, Gucci or one of those.It must be a stretch and you must try an outfit on.
Listen to your self talk even now reading this – and listen again when you do it. For me it was “oh I cannot waste someones time when I know I am not going to buy ….bla bla”.
When I shared my experience with my mentor he asked me “when else in your life do you feel you are wasting someone’s time” – ouch!
Try it and let me know how you go. Are you up for it?
Pick a car you think is too expensive for you and go test drive it. My self talk on this one was just the same as the other one. Hmm!
Go and try on some $50K – $100K necklaces, watches or some sort of jewellery. If you are a man in might need to be a Rolex or something or take a woman and make out you are going to buy it for her.
4. Carrying Cash
This one was to carry more cash than you would normally have on you. The suggestion here was $1000 if you normally carry little. And for people that always have $1000 on them then go for $10K.
I hear many of you already saying that you do not carry cash and that you use your Dr/Cr card.
The point with the cash is to see why you are not comfortable with it on you.
Are you afraid of getting mugged, losing it, spending it? – remember Law of Attraction. If you have this going on best to know you do so you can deal with it.
Being who you want to be – in summary
It is not always so easy to to be the person we want to be when we do not yet have the results. Money is a good example to use as it is tangible and measurable.
If you do not have the wealth you aspire to have are you willing to try some of these ideas?
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