Be Do Have and Create More Success in your life.
They think when I have X – ( being the end goal) , then I will do all the things I want to do and then I will be X (whatever the end goal is for them).
So they are working on Have Do Be.
A good example is money. If you want more money in your life you might think “when I am financially free I will do all the things I want to do and then I will be happy”. This idea and approach is not going to get you to financial freedom.
In fact you should be approaching it the other way. BE Do Have
You need to start being the person your really want to become = BE
and doing the actions that that person would do = DO
and then you will have the thing it is you want = HAVE
Back to our Money Example
If you think you will be your happiest when you have financial freedom. And it won’t be until you have financial freedom that you will start doing the things that make you happy. Then you would not start doing anything until you have the money…and how are you going to reach financial freedom and a happy life if you don’t act until you have it?
Can you see how this idea does not work? Complex I know but so important to get.
Because we aren’t “being” the person who is financially free and happy right from the beginning, and doing the things or making the choices that a person who is financially free and happy does, then our journey to having financial freedom and a happy life will be very long and difficult one.
Be Do Have
When I first heard this concept taught some 20+ years ago I just did not get it. Over the years I have become clearer and clearer on the concept. If you have not heard it before then don’t be concerned if it seems a bit difficult to grasp.
How can I BE when I do not HAVE?
In our money example you might be thinking “if I do not have the money that I require to do certain things then I cannot do them”.
I know that is what I thought when I first heard this concept.
Let’s look at that……. If it starts with Being then ask yourself how will you behave when you are financially free? How will you feel? How will you think, make decisions, act and walk? You see we can change all those things right now.
We can be that person we want to be right now. Do you see that?
It is very much based on The Law of Attraction which is based on “like attracts like” so whatever we give our focus to we will bring into our life. So in our money example if we think about what we do not have we get more of not having. If we behave and think like we do already have the money we desire we will attract it.
Now we are talking about BE DO HAVE – and there is a word Do in there. So Law of Attraction is not about sitting around in some woo woo way thinking we will magically manifest our hearts desires. We must take the actions. BE DO HAVE
So we start by Being the person we want to be, Doing what that person would do and then we will have. Make sense?
BE DO HAVE – Another example might be if you want to lose weight.
Clearly if you do not take actions like a slimmer person would take you are probably not going to see many results.
Instead you could start focusing on “being” the slimmer person.
How would a slimmer person eat? What would that person do after dinner….go for a walk or sit down and watch television for the rest of the evening?
By being that slimmer person in your mind you will make better choice (the Doing) and ultimately you will get the results – HAVE.
Have you practiced this concept? If so in which areas of your life? Please share any results and ways it has worked for you. Is there an area of your life you can use this concept now?
So what does Be Do Have have to do with my Home Based Business? – everything! Are you being the person you want to be in your business? Are you thinking like the business owner you aspire to be? Are you doing the things that you need to do to be successful? If you are, you are on your way to having the success you aspire to have.
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